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25 years ago, in October 20, my daughter Jessica took part in her daily run, and my friend Joanne lost everything she had in the Oak Hill fire.
A few days after the start of the fire, when she was able to enter her home, everything disappeared. Everything.
The house, her clothes, Jessica's toys, her pictures, her books, all her furniture, her plates and jars. Everything.
There is nothing to save or save. Nothing.
Danger is defined as "the possibility of injury or injury ";
The possibility of unwelcome or unpleasant things
Apparently Joanne is in danger at this time.
She lives with a friend of hers.
That night Joanne realized that Jessica needed diapers, so she went to the local pharmacy to buy some.
There she realized she needed a toothbrush and toothpaste.
She stopped and, like her habits, picked up the toothpaste she usually bought.
Then she turned to her toothbrush.
She died in her footsteps, staring at the great choices in front of her eyes.
She was overwhelmed by many choices.
She felt out of breath.
She closed her eyes and stood there firmly with her feet, taking a deep breath and holding her breath.
She opened her eyes.
What stands before her now is not an opportunity, but an opportunity.
This situation provides an opportunity for her to do something different.
Something unusual for her.
Something that led her to choose to change.
She asked herself, "If I choose to see this moment as an opportunity, what is the opportunity to open to me now?
What is the option to open to me from this space?
When she looked at the toothbrush, she thought it would be easiest to get the brand she had been using, but later she thought the opportunity to be open to her now was to get the electric toothbrush she wanted to try for a while.
"What is the opportunity to open to me now?
Try an electric toothbrush. She bought it.
This is one of the worst crises of her life.
She has been asking the question, "If I choose to look at this moment as an opportunity, what is the opportunity to be open to me now?
This is simply the duality of change.
Change is dangerous.
There is an opportunity for change.
Whether the change is out of your control or within your control, it doesn't matter.
The duality of change will always exist. You choose.
You can look at change through the perspective of opportunity and ask yourself, "If I choose to see this moment as an opportunity, what is the opportunity now open to me?